Pastor’s Wife Runs Secret Sex Society for Women Inside Church

The wife of a pastor at a mid-sized church says she ran a secret women’s group inside the church without her husband’s knowledge for several years, highlighting that all sort of sexual activities would take place in the compound of the church without most people of the church knowing.

According to the wife, the group operated under the appearance of prayer, counselling and women’s ministry sessions held after regular church services. She said participation was limited and based on private conversations rather than open invitations, with meetings taking place in side rooms once the main congregation had dispersed.

The claims were outlined in interviews with The Weekend Star by the woman, identified as Candy, and a former participant called Mariah. The real identity of the church and the persons who gave detail were withheld.

The wife, who was responsible for women’s counselling and spiritual mentorship, said the group grew out of discussions with women who approached her about marital strain, emotional neglect and dissatisfaction in their personal lives. She argued that such issues were rarely addressed openly within the church environment.

Mariah said she initially sought counselling due to difficulties in her marriage. She described the group as offering an outlet that differed significantly from what she experienced at home, though she acknowledged that her involvement developed gradually rather than through a clear invitation.

Candy stated that attendance was voluntary and restricted to adult women, sometimes numbering more than 20 at a time. She also confirmed that the gatherings were never documented and relied on discretion, staggered departures and silence to avoid attention. She said her husband typically left the church early after services and was unaware of what followed.

Financial contributions were reportedly expected from participants, both to cover costs associated with the gatherings and through continued donations to the church. The pastor’s wife said these contributions were viewed internally as part of accountability, though she acknowledged that her position carried influence.

Men involved in the activities were recruited from outside the congregation and were not introduced to church members or included in services. Candy said this separation was deliberate to limit exposure and preserve secrecy.